Low AGFLAP People

I find the people who are in a low AGFLAP state will typically span the range of apathy, grief, fear and lust. Although, they will also experience moments of anger and pride, and to a lesser extent, courageousness, acceptance and peace. Low AGFLAP people will typically have all the four wants operating in their lives: approval, control, security, separation and oneness.

Such people will be anxious because they will typically feel powerless to change the circumstances of their lives. They will desire the approval of others, but feel that they have not got what it takes to merit their approval. I believe that the main want that is driving a person in low AGFLAP will be the want for security -- they will be very insecure people. This insecurity will also drive the want for control as they desperately seek to avoid further harm and loss.

Low AGFLAP people will have a low self-esteem, they will be unsure of themselves, and therefore, they will constantly seek the approval of others in order to know that they are okay the way they are.

It is interesting to note that low AGFLAP people tend to have both a want for separation, and its opposite, oneness: they will long for the power that they need in order to justify themselves and merit the approval and reward of other people, according to their ability and achievements. But they will typically slip back into a want for oneness when they realise that they don't have what it takes and they just want to blend in with the crowd and avoid getting noticed for the wrong reasons.

Low AGFLAP people will typically experience depression and anxiety. They will feel like the victims of an unfair world and will feel powerless to do anything about it -- which will result in apathy, grief and anger.

Low AGFLAP people will tend to be unpleasant people to be around, because they will always be feeling miserable and will always be complaining and will always have a "poor me" attitude. You will often find these people seeking your approval in one way or another. They will often cite something bad that happened to them in the past, or some unattainable goal, as being the reason why they are unhappy.

Either way, such a focus causes a person to look outside of themselves for their source of love, peace and joy. In truth, the source of love, peace and joy lies within each and every one of us – regardless of stories of the past, the way we look, the abilities we have or the material things we possess.

Such people tend to be hopeless dreamers and will share their latest aspirations and fantasies with the people that they feel close to. These people will tend not to achieve much in life unlike those who are in high AGFLAP or CAP.