The Law of Attraction – Part 2

After listening to The Law of Attraction abridged version, I decided to download The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. The Secret is about Rhonda Byrne's experience with The Law of Attraction. Her marketing gambit with The Secret is in making reference to great people from the past - such as Plato, Mozart and the like, whom she claims used The Secret, although they might not have been aware of it. The book seemed to consist of a lot of quotes from various self help author's such as Joe Vitale and Jack Canfield. In fact, the quotes made up about 20 to 25 percent of the actual book. As you'd expect, there's not a great deal of new information in this book - it basically echoes what was already said in the LOA (as well as many other related books). However, there are some good points she makes. She emphasises the need to be grateful for what you have and to take the time to express that gratitude. She also emphasises the need to have positive emotions in order to attract positive circumstances. Rhonda Byrne recommends finding those things that make you happy and doing them when you feel down, in order to make a positive shift in your emotions.

As you'd expect, The Secret was full of anecdotes from well known self-help guru's of how they achieved amazing things. There's a testimony from Morris Goodman, the Miracle Man, who, after being paralysed from a plane crash, made a remarkable recovery through positive thinking. There's also a testimony from Jack Canfield, who was able to purchase a 4.5 million dollar mansion through believing in the success of his Chicken Soup for the Soul books. These people and their books often go on about how we can achieve anything we want. I'm uncomfortable with this approach as it encourages insecure people to try to attract incredible things into their life - things that they think will make them happy. What is evident to me is that in order to attract positive things into your life, you first have to be a balanced, secure and positive minded person first.

I read in a related book by James Weaver that its important to be content just as you are: you need to be able to live without those things that you're trying to attract. This probably goes a long way towards explaining why these things didn't work for me in the past. But I'm convinced that there is something to all of this - once you get away from all the marketing hype. In reality, I believe what we're able to attract is probably somewhat more down to earth than the stories we've been told. Its all about being true to what you really want in your heart - what is truly right for you at that time. But when a person is negative and confused - it becomes difficult to identity or to believe in those things. They say its as easy to attract a million dollars as it is to attract ten dollars. I suppose they're just trying to take the limits off our thinking. But its not an invitation to fantasise about things that are really not meant to be in our lives. There is a lot of confusion about this kind of thing and I wish self-help authors would do a lot more to clarify these things.

As I said before: I wasn't ready to use the Law of Attraction in the past as I was too negative. Its all about a person's disposition: if a person is positive, on the whole, they'll tend to attract positive people and things into their life; the reverse is also true. In fact, I'd say that positive people don't really have to use the LOA, as they're already using it, to some extent, without realising it. If a person is struggling with depression and anxiety, they'll no doubt want to attract a few, big, incredible things into their life, which they believe will change their life and make them happy. This approach won't work. For these reasons, I'd say that any method that shifts a person's overall disposition towards the positive, is more important than LOA related teaching and activity.

As a Christian I needed to focus on and accept the grace message. I needed to go beyond the righteousness-by-faith message of Joseph Prince, and to embrace the Freebeliever message, in order to take a critical look at religion and the church-life. Many Christians seem to stay at that stage: going over the grace message again and again. For me, I also needed to release negative beliefs by using The Work of Byron Katie. But now I feel that I can't progress much further with these methods. I've come a long way in the last five years and can honestly say that I've changed a lot and can be truly grateful for what I have. But I feel as if I'm living my life to fifty percent capacity. Some days I feel like my glass is half full, other times I feel my glass is half empty. I go from feeling genuinely grateful for what I have, to feeling unfulfilled.  I've made a big effort to come to terms with reality and to be happy with what I have, but I feel like I'm missing out on some things and I could do better.

I wanted to get the perspective of the LOA from someone lower down the food chain than Jack Canfield and his 4.5 million dollar mansion. So I downloaded a couple of eBooks by James Weaver to my Kindle. They're only short books, less than fifty pages, that relate his experience with LOA. James Weaver related things like how he was able to get some animals for his farm for free - through belief. He describes his experiences and some of the things he attracted, in the eBook, The 30 Day Attraction Experiment. In The Attraction Blueprint, James Weaver recommends a series of steps to attracting what you want in your life. He recommends taking time to determine what you really want and then making a written statement declaring that you already have it. He lists the techniques in the following order:
1) Visualisation; 2) Expressing gratitude; 3) Practising acceptance; 4) Reading your intention statement; 5) Eliminating limiting beliefs; 6) Raising your expectations; 7) Affirmations.

I've been thinking about what I really want. Unsurprisingly, a brand new Ferrari is pretty low down on the list.  I feel as if I'm in a stalemate situation now and that nothing will change unless I do something about it. So I'm going to make a written statement of my intentions for the things that are important to me now. James Weaver recommends reading your statement of intentions a few times first thing in the morning and last thing at night (and once or twice in between, during the day if you can).

The LOA and The Secret both quote Bible verses pertaining to asking, believing and receiving. It struck me that there is actually and accord between LOA and Word of Faith as taught by Kenneth E. Hagin. There are verses about faith in the Bible that cannot be ignored. It seems that with the focus that people put on the grace message, they seem to forget all about these verses of faith. But to do this would be to ignore a significant aspect of The Gospel of Jesus Christ. I couldn't get LOA-style self-help and Word of Faith teaching to work for me in the past. So when the grace message came along I kind of ring-fenced all of that off in my life. If there is no credibility to faith and LOA then that would refute a substantial amount of Christian and self-help teaching out there - including the Bible. I feel as if I've come full circle now and have returned to the very kind of teaching that set me on my spiritual path. Its good to know that perhaps all of that teaching in the past is not all bogus after all. But I'm interested in knowing more about why it didn't work for me in the past and, more importantly, how I can apply these teachings and methods into my life now.